Anonymous: i discovered i'm lesbian one year ago and i have been with a girl for 5 months but its really an awkward relationship and i would like her to be my girl friend, what should i do?

Are you sure she’s a lesbian? Are you sure you might want to risk your friendship in doing this? If you think that she would want to be youre girlfriend too than go ahead and ask, I say!

larrybodyinlove-deactivated2012: So I've explored the possibility that I could possibly like girls as well as guysfir about 6 months now. Because lately, I've been not just imagining, but wishing for a relationship with a girl. But I still like guys. My mom said that she'd support me either way. And I just look at girls so different now. What do you think about this?

I think you could be bisexual, it’s a real thing and it doesn’t make you a freak. It just makes you like both sexes, and that’s okay. Don’t let it worry you. :)

Anonymous: so me and my best friend are in love but the problem is: i live in belgium and she in manchester...

That’s okay, long distance relationships still work.

Just skype often, call, text, and send pictures. If you don’t lose contact, it’ll be like she isn’t far away! Good look, dear!

Anonymous: what dose a girl do when she just had her heartbroken for the first time and it was with her first gf ever in her life and all she thinks about is her and wanting her back... and any tips and helping to get her back ? please help im begging i love and miss her so much with all my heart and would do anything to get her back or win over her heart back

I’m sorry hun, if you love something… I’d let it go.

Give her time, then try to talk to her, just as a friend, maybe after that you can try to build it back into a relationship.

Anonymous: Hi, you probably get questions like this all the time but I'm 18 years old and I can remember having a little crush on a girl in the 1st grade. Ever since I've had an attraction to girls but I've never been with one so I don't really know if I'm bi or whatever. What do you think would be a good way for me to tell? I'm really confused and have been for a really long time. I <3 your blog btw

Hey! It’s no problem! :) 

I think that sexuality isn’t about labels, ultimately, it’s about who you fall in love with, so if you’re attracted to girls, then go and be with them, picture this:

  • Think of a girl (make sure it isn’t someone you know, just come up with a pretty face)
  • Picture yourself coming home from a long day of work, you kiss them on the cheek and they’re cooking on the stove, your favorite meal. You love the smell, it’s everywhere. You go behind her and you hug her, just f eeling her figure.
  • Then, you two laugh and talk during dinner, afterwards, the two of you cuddle on the couch, no sex yet, just cuddling.

Still stuck? Now imagine the same thing with a guy, which one would you rather have? 

That’s how I think you can tell.

Anonymous: how did you know you were actually bisexual ?

Well, we are actually both lesbians.

One of us isn’t out (the one answering) and the other came out as bisexual.

I think that sexuality isn’t about labels, ultimately, it’s about who you fall in love with, so if you’re attracted to girls, then go and be with them, picture this:

  • Think of a girl (make sure it isn’t someone you know, just come up with a pretty face)
  • Picture yourself coming home from a long day of work, you kiss them on the cheek and they’re cooking on the stove, your favorite meal. You love the smell, it’s everywhere. You go behind her and you hug her, just feeling her figure.
  • Then, you two laugh and talk during dinner, afterwards, the two of you cuddle on the couch, no sex yet, just cuddling.

Still stuck? Now imagine the same thing with a guy, which one would you rather have? 

That’s how I think you can tell.